Make plans with purpose. Say, “I will …” and then do it. People end up going through their whole life disappointed, because they never realized their dreams or goals. And that didn’t happen because they didn’t get out of the dreaming stage and into the planning and action stage.
Make a list of your ‘shoulds.’ Keep the ones that are real to you. Toss the rest. Now put action steps beside them and go out and make them happen.